Saturday, December 23, 2006

Maaaa...

The reason for this post is evident from the title.. But it is even more important at this point of time as amma turns another year young! (She just told me to switch off the TV, by the way)

So, aaj se kaafi saal pehle, inka janam hua tha aur inke kaaran hamara.. Unnecessary, but Iam too self centered.. But what to do, she gave the world what it needed at the right time.. Modesty aint my cup of tea.. I digress..

At the break of dawn, she wakes up and makes tea, without sugar these days, and drinks. if you thought you would get some pati vrata types, you are terribly mistaken..Appa thankfully understands. She is someone who every other person looks up to, age no bar. She is like the friend,philosopher,guide for those who have lost their way..

Our sir in college once asked us to write five lines about mother. My first line was "she cooks yummy food", welcome to a PG student's communication theory notebook. Well, she does cook like herself! which is amazing..no comparison. Now that I live in a hostel, I miss her dosas big time, crisp,roasted..heaven served in a platter.

My second line was " She buys me clothes".. Nope, I hate shopping. But whenever I run outta the 'appropriate' clothes for a girl, she decides for a wardrobe malfunction! But the point is, we like the same things, so no fighting in front of the salesman..

My third line read " She is beautiful" .. That she is. where do you think I got it from, Fair and Lovely? I feel good when ppl say I look like her, actually I dont.. Men still drool when we go out to eat, not at the food of course! Very photogenic I must add. She is beautiful inside as well. VERY.....

My fourth line went something like " She sings like a nightingale" ..You should listen to Baabuji dheere chalna.. If your jaw doesnt touch the floor and your eyes remain wide open instead of going into semi meditation, I will renounce the world..Thats what she is all about. When she sings you will forget Worldspace. I mean it.

My fifth line was " She loves to work" ..always on her toes, running around with her tiny feet, she has reached places where ppl can only imagine or dream of.. She is an achiever. Someone who took everything in her stride and never let us feel like we did not have things others had. Material or otherwise. Very strong woman, an idol of sorts..

I wrote those five lines, while the rest of the class wrote stuff like, 'I miss her', 'she takes care of me', 'I can say anything to her', 'she is like my friend'...etc etc...
I wondered, I feel the same things but why could I never write, let alone tell her that I love her??

Maybe because she is annoying at times! Check this out:
Me: hi
Ma:late again..How many times have I told you to come home at six? (trust me, when she looks at you, eyes spitting fury, it seems like she knows what you have been upto, guilt or gut, she does know)

Me: How many times have I told you I cant. I have work. (basket ball and shine )
Ma: I dont know what college this is..blah blah blah...when are you ever gonna realise...some more blah

Phone rings. I walk away with it.
Ma: Pah! This phone also. This house is like a dharamshala for you, you come to sleep and eat. Iam gonna throw that mobile of yours.
Me: no response..

Not anymore..

Now that I dont live with her, I want someone to scold me when I come late, to ask if I have eaten, to wake me up (even if it means ramdev maharaj ka yoga lessons..chalega) ...to just be there.

I love you and care for you. Sorry for behaving like an idiot at times(beti kiski hai), I do miss all those conversations we have had about people, abt places and abt life.. I hate to admit but you do make sense.. Aapki hindi buri nahi hai!! he he
Thanks for everything and most importantly for giving me my name...

Maaa... Aaj Khush tho bahut hoge tum..;) (Amitabh Bachchan style)


"Happy Birthday" ;)...

10 comments:

pRicky said...

You cant even imagine how happy I am to comment on this first...
I second all the things you wrote... except that she is irritating or annoying and the etc...
Singing I still need to make her sing, hmmm...
First hand experience of her cooking...
Heard about her the idol woman life she has led...
Known her amazing brilliant daughter for over three years...
Spoken with her and made a fool of myself excessively...
I should apologise to her and her daughter would agree too that most times she was wasting her precious time talking with an idiot like me...
To your mother my dear MT I bow in respect and hail her the best wishes on her birthday... her looks kill and ravage but she makes you feel cared...

Tsu said...

aww this is a perfect birthday gift... a grown daughter who thinks that she is independent, and brave on her own in the end wanting to get scolded by her mom!!!
hope she reads this and give her my belated birthday wishes!!!

mystupendoussalvation said...

hey dost I was the first person who know abt this bday gift rt but u know wat I didnt expect this would came out so damn very well, now I think everyone moms means to them alot in many different ways its Like MAA TUJHE SALAAM!!
direct dil se now i proud to be ur frd & for aunty this neccesary evil main hai kuch baat!!
its amazing way to show ur feelings to someone!!!
happy bday once again to amma & hats off to u!!

Arcane Crapper said...

When do I get to meet your mom? You can invite me over for lunch any time. :)

PS: Very thoughtful post. :)

Prude said...

Beautiful. Couldn't stop thinking of my mom even for a second while reading it! Very touching. You are one lucky kid...and she is one lucky mom!!!
Kudos!

nothin.. within said...

hey!great post buddy u know what i was facing the same situations at home but thats how it is.complain n only complain but still amma is great.

Reema Banerjee said...

Mum's...hmm...lemme recommend a book that very dispassionately discusses just this...J Coatzee's Boyhood. read it.

Geetha said...

Sorry to post the comment late but i did comment as soon as i read on that day. After reading ur post on "Just 8cms away" i felt like reading this again. If one believes in next janam ..i want you to be my mother!!!.
Cheers
amma

Cosmos said...

Sorry for commenting very very late but pata nahi us din ise padhne ke baad bhi main comment kyon nahi kar paya. Shayad yeh sab padhane ke baad aap kisi aur kaam ke baare me soch hi nahi sakte hain.
Maa Really Great

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