Monday, August 27, 2007

Tu Bhai hai to apun bhi behen hai!

Actually, I really dont think I should blog about this cos the guy in question, is being very nasty with me right now, he just threatened with hand gestures, to shut down the comp. But because I dont take such things to heart, I shall continue..probably he does'nt know he is being written about! Blame it on the innocence of his age or should I admit, his 'I-care-a-damn' attitude?


Whatever the reason, (see even I dont care!), the point is this is a post waiting to be blogged. When I was in the eighth standard, our class teacher told us that we need to celebrate rakhi! we were shocked. Most of us were open mouthed and dumbstruck for very obvious reasons. Thats the kuch kuch hota hai phase and this lady was telling us to do a bhaiya mere rakhi ke bandhan ko nibhaana...She was like all the girls will buy one rakhi each and all the boys should get something for the girls..fair enough...but the problem is, its according to your bloody roll number, so if u happen to be romantically inclined towards anyone around your roll call, then thats the end of the knight in shining armour and farewell to the dreamgirls...

I personally was not in favour of encouraging such a blasphemous relationship. I have a brother at home and I dont need to add to that number. This is the only place where I can bitch abt him and Iam making use of this golden opportunity...


So, when I was really small, and he was minus four smaller than me, we had a fight. Whats new? lots actually. Our fights have always seen the glint of new age weapons, it was never hit-with-whatever-you-find. Thats not how real warriors fight, thats random self-defence. The weapon in question here is a punching machine.. He hit me hard with it, on my back. And that was just the beginning of my romance with back injuries, that keep reminding me, in Arnold the great's famous words - "I will be back".

Years later, when we matured into responsible individuals, we got a new TV at home. Its USP for us was definitely the remote. U have the remote, u have the control, thinking thus, a deal was made and it was mutually decided to give each other a day with the remote. one day for me, one day for him. It was the fastest deal in the history of independent India, there was no one 'left' to oppose it anyway! thanks to my parents who firmly believed in hum do hamare do..

And then reality hit hard, we were informed that we were gonna vacate the delhi house and move to bangalore, for good. That was probably the first time that we realised we live in the same house. That was the beginning of a completely weird relationship.


We grew up, he did, definitely. He got friends, a nice bunch. He has always been the dominating kind, his following thus, is a bunch of wayward kids who look upto him. And he loves it and I love that. Temper plays around his nose, and he makes no attempt to silence it. I am not scared of it though, maybe Iam but thats just a wee bit.

We used to play a lot together, even though we had our own gender specific friends. I learn cricket from him and since then I have been trying to impress him both with the ball and the bat, but in vain. He never complements, scolds always, but that has made me push myself harder. Sometimes I feel like he is my elder brother, but when I see that cheeky smile on his face, " Akka! enodu akka! " ( my sister!) I realise that my purse is gonna say good bye to a big bunch.

His face gives away his innermost feelings, how much ever he tries to hide. Behind that tough exterior is a sensitive soul, aiye sounds like some axe effect ad.. But thats true, he has cried his heart out after watching an emotionally charged movie 'sagar' . He says all kinds of things about the Indian cricket team, but then ends up biting his nails... He is what I call, the secret,silent, nail-biting spectator.

You should witness the dressing up ceremony. Bath over. towel rolled. mirror in fsront, full x-ray of the face, applies axe, almost empties the bottle. I fume. Wears jeans, takes shirts out...selects:

Bhai: oi ye theek hai kya?
MT: hmmm..
Bhai: theek se bata na..
MT: haan theek hai..
Bhai: (not convinced)
MT: tujhe kaun dekhne vala hai, kuch bhi pehenke jaana..
Bhai: tu kabhi theek se nahi batati..
MT: to puchta kyun hai?
Bhai: aur kaun batayega?
MT: (smiles) red pehenke jaa, vaise bhi tere paas kuch hai nahi..
Bhai: to leke dena.
MT vanishes...

This is an everyday affair...and will continue for years to come...I might not be able to say it on his face ever, but he is one guy I will do anything for...cos he just bought me chocolate cake from sweet chariot...that reminds me he is an awesome cook...extremely brilliant..he can make a five star dish outta dhabe ka khana and both will tempt your taste buds to ask for more... And he is really funny, you should see him sing and dance..His jokes are wicked and soon you will learn to laugh at yourself and when he laughs at yours, you feel like you have accompolished something...I mean, I feel I have...all the time..He can sing besura and bring the building down and if I do the same he says " sadhana raat ho gayi hai, akal nahi hai kya tere mein?" And I increase my volume....

I love him.

Completely, genuinely,honestly....even though he goes crazy over football,over liverpool, and is mad about red...He will go a long way,I know. He is so unlike me, and that is reason enough. Dismantle anything and give it to him, u will find a new and improved version,be it a broken cd, a comp,or a broken heart. Kids love him..Harish bhaiya chahiye, Harish Bhaiya chahiye...

Thanks for that arm around my shoulder
Thanks for being with me
Thanks for letting me win remote fights, and giving in to my stupidities
Thanks for teaching me cricket and making me fallmadly in love with it
Thanks for telling me I suck instead of flattering me to death
Thanks for everything....
have a wonderful life...i hope things between us dont change when u become a big man ;) u know what that means!

" bhai jao pahle us aadmi ka sign leke aao, jisne hamara ghar kharida tha, uske baad mere bhai, tu kahi bhi sign karne bol, main karungi.."

For all the songs we love and all the laughs we have shared and the tears....I know I irritate u too much, but this is just for you..

Hope u have the patience to read...

Take Care

He loves red...

10 comments:

pRicky said...

He's lucky also...

Cosmos said...

I could see him infront of me in Red t-shirt and the conversation too.. :-)

Anonymous said...

i cant blve...tho mere bare mein bhi soch thi hai.....aaj tak mein yeh sochta tha ki tu mujhe nahi jaanthi..parr aaj se pehle....


i still don noe abt the punching machine fite.....u ve told me many times abt it....iam seriously very sorry for dat...if it ever happened.....


half da times i used to fall for ur stupid tricks....blve watever u say...like u wer my guru or sumthing....


we can never forget dose days in neethi...wen used to have so much fun....play cricket at home..eat raju..(thatha shop mein joh miltha tha)...akash ko darana..reema reema kehlne..bablu saala humesha hero....


den dat ganda sa train journey from delhi to bangalore....tatkal mein...usmein bhi humne maaze kiye...

nyways ...mein jithna bhi likhon woh kam padega...
i cant imagine a life without u....bhagwan wud have worked his ass off to make a sis tere jaise...iam so lucky....or ur so lucky...he he...

kuch bhi ho...i never thought i'll be writing dis for u...and yeah i sing better dan u.....

liverpool always rocks!!!and ofcourse u also!!!!

love you

tera bhai!!!

Reema Banerjee said...

ur post is nice...wot adds the shine is the comment above mine :)

Supriya said...

o my god..!! this literally got tears to my eyes and think of all de times ive had wit my bro..!! hey.. although ive never met u... can understand all the fun uve had wit hari(hmm... shud i call him harish henceforth ;)??) and im truly shocked to see his comment on this blog...!! can understand how moved he wud've been to take SUCH a step..!!!
hats off to the ever loving and ever irritating bhai-behen relationship..!!!!

Prude said...

I don't know what to say...
except ummm home is where the heart is and urs is definitely in the right place!
Happy Rakhi

vaish_v12 said...

Supeh is seriously an understatement!!!:)Twas very movin.. and it etches out his true personality...dont think anyone cud have put it any better!!:) Lucky you hari...and like sup said its really unbelievable to see him take SUCH a step!

And.. am actually fallen in luv in ya writin...i read all de blogs..de quality of language used.. along wid a hint of humour..yet makin powerful statements.. and especially de one-liners at de end..way to go..tooo good!!:)

pooja said...

wonderful!touching!fantastic!out of the world!fabulous!..........i just cant stop but i have to because my vocabulary is not as good as yours :(....though i read this much earlier but couldnt comment...my feelings after reading this were undefinable by words.....you are such a good writer yaar....wish i could write like you......now coming to the main point harish!!!!!......even i wanna taste some of his dishes...akhir apun bhi toh behen hai!!!!!!....kabhi kuch khilaya hi nahi....this blog describes him in such a way ki usko bhi nahi pata hoga k wo aisa hai....choooooooo chweeetttttttt!!!!!!!!
vaise kya family hai!!!!!
we are all so good na!lol.......
this was really something...i can write another blog about this entry!gr8 going sadhana and say hi to DURVASA MAHARISHI......o now that you have written so much about him even i can remember some of my n harish's fights n masti!once we were in neeti n u had set up a mike n we all were singing by turns n in those days i dint even know the T of telvision....so i sang that 'roop suhana lagta hai' thing with all the galat words and u udaofied so much mazak of me na
:( that i started crying n uske baad harish ne tumhe daanta tha....hahaha why arent we still chote bache harish 4 minus than u and me 1 minus than harish...n ya how can i forget he was soooooooooooooo cute bachpan mein....and don to wo hai hi...aur i dint know he loves red.....koi baat nahi.....o my i can just keep on writing......so the thoughts and emotions process continues...........i have been reading this entry every day yaar itz just unbeatable.....................keepwriting..................luv ya lotz.........n luv u bhai.....

Anonymous said...

Saddie...as usual i'll say that u rockkk...baby u r lucky enuf to have a bro lyk urs...i ws in tears while reading the post...nvr experienced bro's love :(
But ur bro mite hv gone mad reading this..haina??uska to pyar aur badh gaya hoga tere liye.
'Compliment' ki spelling correct kar lena...
The best part i liked ws the conversation about the dress he wears..hehe funny.
all the best for the next post da..
keep rocking.!!!

Love rashmi.

Tsu said...

damn cute post man!!! I wanna brothereeeeee.. he he..